Sunday, November 29, 2009

Stand Up or Stand Aside

I saw a billboard for the Army National Guard the other day that called out to young men and women - your sons and daughters - to "stand up or stand aside."  That really made me stop and think.  I had just been engaged in a conversation about our church and its diffidence in deciding whether it is a "peace church" or a "just war church."  As it stands now, we are neither, "welcoming and respecting both views."  Some might argue that this inclusivity is our strength but I think it reflects our collective failure to rise to the challenge of our times.  Consider the following two statements:

"We affirm the right of individuals and nations to defend themselves, and affirm our responsibility to protect our neighbors from aggression. Some of us believe that these can be done without the use of lethal force; others believe lethal force is sometimes necessary...For Unitarian Universalists, the exercise of individual conscience is holy work.  Conscientious discernment leads us to engage in the creation of peace in different ways. We affirm a range of individual choices, including military service and conscientious objection (whether to all wars or particular wars), as fully compatible with Unitarian Universalism. For those among us who make a formal commitment to military service, we will honor their commitment, welcome them home, and offer pastoral support. For those among us who make a formal commitment as conscientious objectors, we will offer documented certification, honor their commitment, and offer pastoral support."

"The “reasonable” people’s failure is obvious. With the best intentions and a naïve lack of realism, they think that with a little reason they can bend back into position the framework that has gone out of joint. In their lack of vision they want to do justice to all sides, and so the conflicting forces wear them down with nothing achieved. Disappointed by the world’s unreasonableness, they see themselves condemned to ineffectiveness; they step aside in resignation or collapse before the stronger party."[i]


The first statement comes from the recently released draft UU Statement of Conscience (http://www.uua.org/documents/csw/peacemaking/0910_draft_soc.pdf) and appears to be a consensus statement welcoming and honoring those who believe we should be a "peace church" and those who believe in "just war".  Above all, as in so many things UU, it honors individual right of conscience on these matters.  It is a consensus statement written by reasonable men and women whose goal appears to be peacemaking and unity within our Church.

The second statement is an indictment of this kind of thinking.  It condems "reasonable" people who, in their zeal to honor all points of view, in their lack of a collective, meaningful, and substantive vision of a better world (not just a "vision" of platitudes which can be interpreted to mean whatever one wants it to mean) are worn down by discussion and debate and become impotent to bring about real change.  Standing aside, they let those who are convinced they are acting in the name of God and on behalf of all people, lead us down a destructive path.  Furthermore, in their failure to take a stand, they are, in fact taking a stand on the side of those convinced zealots who declare, "you are either with us or against us in this war," because, in their silence and inaction, they are empowering the warlike zealots to advance their cause over the cause of true and meaningful peace.

The second statement, an indictment of the German Christian Church, was written by Pastor Dietrich Bonhoeffer from a Gestapo prison while the country he loved was waging a brutal war of aggression which would lead to its own destruction - physically and morally.  He wrote it months before his execution.  He wrote it as a call to us across the years not to make the same mistake of standing aside while the forces of war, aggression, hate, and evil are once again allowed to prevail.  Unfortunately, we have not heeded his call.

I often read about how any statement against America's wars, any condemnation of our country's actions amounts to a failure "to support our troops."  With vague recollections of the Vietnam War experience (one which fewer and fewer people were alive or old enough to remember) we listen to those voices who say that dissent amounts to a betrayal of our "uniformed heroes."  Fearing that we might be unjust by failing to "support" we shy away from standing up to take a principled position against war.

I wonder how many of you have considered that by supporting our current wars (even tacitly); by asking Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Marines, and Coast Guardsmen to engage in unjust war, "shock and awe" destruction on a massive scale, unjust detention of the innocent, torture, and a host of other injustices you collectively dishonor all that we serve for and all that we aspire to be.  By dishonoring us, you fail to support us.

Speaking for myself, I joined the military because I viewed it as an opportunity to do something bigger than myself - to serve a nation founded on justice, freedom, and equality in a meaningful way.  Serving my country was an honorable, meaningful thing to do - it is what made all of the hard work and sacrifice worthwhile.

You asked me to serve in the wars of the last decade.  You asked me to train Sailors to be guards at Guantanamo.  You asked me to walk those cell blocks in the middle of the night, ensuring another Abu Ghraib would not happen and that those detainees (some of whom have proven to be innocent but were detained because, "well, we can't be too careful with those 'Islamo-fascist terrorists' who just can't be reasoned with...") were well guarded in a remote outpost away from your homes.  You asked me to do all of these things and you asked many, many others to do a lot more.  Did you ask us to do these things because of a steadfast commitment to freedom, justice and the Beloved Community - in other words a commitment to the values of our faith - or did you ask us to do them out of post 9/11 fear, loathing of an 'other' you did not understand, and anger at those "evil bastards"?

If you asked for the latter reasons, and many, many of us did, then far from supporting us you dishonored us because you dishonored what we have served for and, in some cases, forced us into situations where, ill-equipped, ill-trained, ill-led, we betrayed our core values - we betrayed ourselves.

I recognize a couple of things.  First, I and all who have served in the armed forces have the responsibility for our own actions.  Second, if the UU Church had been a "peace" church when I joined in 2001, I may not have been as welcomed as I was.  If you had not welcomed me for that reason, however, I may have been forced to come to terms with my own convictions about war and peace much sooner.  I arrived at my pacifism on my own.  How much better it might have been if I had done so with the spiritual guidance and support of my church?  I honor conviction and a commitment to core values highly - as most military men and women do.  A "peace church" living a commitment to peace would have been where I wanted to find myself.

Unfortunately, that is not (much to my dismay) where I have found myself.  Instead, I have found myself in a Church that appears to have every intention to stand aside and let this monstrous injustice go on.

Those who argue against pacifism will often cite the example of World War II.  "Would you have just stood aside and let Hitler conquer the world?  Would you have let that monstrous evil prevail? Huh? Huh?"  Bonhoeffer shows us, however, that the question offers a false choice.  He tells us that if he, his fellow ministers, and their Congregations had spoken and acted in the years before Hitler came to power with the same conviction that Hitler, the Nazi's, and their allies did, then the war would never have been fought and Germany would not have wrought such destruction before, herself, being destroyed.

By becoming a "peace church", we have an opportunity to take a stand that truly reflects our stated values.  We have an opportunity to speak out meaningfully and forcefully against all war and, in so doing, become a force that can end this one.  We have an opportunity to honor all those who have served, fought, been injured, or died by striving to remake our country into the ideal for which they served, fought, and sacrificed.  We have an opportunity to stand up rather than just stand aside.

It is what we must do.

[i] Bonhoeffer, Dietrich (1943). "After ten years: A reckoning made at New Year 1943", in Letters and papers from prison. London: The Folio Society, 2000, p. 4.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

A Wise Observation

"Forgive me, I seem to be commenting on everything."  Lieutenant Commander Data, Star Trek:  The Next Generation.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Making a Difference

I just finished watching the movie Star Trek: Generations. It is not the best of the Star Trek feature films but it is special because it is the one in which the character Captain James T. Kirk (of the original Star Trek series) teams up with Captain Jean Luc Picard (of the sequel Star Trek: The Next Generation) to save the galaxy as so often happened in that wonderful TV series and all of its sequels.

Now Captain James T. Kirk has always been my hero. His devotion to duty, to his ship, to his crew inspired me to become a naval officer and aspire to be the Captain of a United States Ship. My command philosophy when I was Captain of USS Rentz and when I commanded the Navy Sailors at the Guantanamo detention facility was "Accomplish the Mission, Bring the Crew Home Safe, Uphold the Sailor's Creed, Try to Find a Way to Say Yes." I think James Kirk would have had a similar philosophy because to James Kirk, duty and responsibility to the mission and to one's ship and crew were important above all things.

Captain Kirk dies at the end of this movie, literally in the arms of Captain Picard and after successfully accomplishing their mission. Kirk's says to Picard, "Did we make a difference?" When Picard assures him that they did, Kirk's dying words are, "It was fun!"

Kirk and Picard, of course, are fictional characters but I have often said that everything I learned about naval leadership and a lot I learned about life comes from Star Trek, Gene Roddenberry's vision of the fulfillment of the human adventure. If, at the end of our lives, we can say that we made a difference and that it was fun, we will truly have lived a good and meaningful life. Thanks Captain Kirk for yet another lesson.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

For One of the Dead - Week of November 15th, 2009

Please remember Justin Boyes, a 26 year old Canadian man who died in Afghanistan. I don't know him but I do know that his life was every bit as sacred as mine. His death diminishes all of our lives.

Source: U. S. and Coalition Casualties - http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2004/oef.casualties/2009.10.html.

Crises of Faith

Yesterday, I stood with like-minded people at a peace vigil sponsored by a local anti-war group. I felt good standing with these people. They were clear in their conviction that the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan are wrong. Their clarity matched mine and it felt good to share this time with them.

In a recent blog entry, Rev. Fred L Hammond spoke of “A Crisis of Faith.” If I understood him correctly, he stated that Unitarian Universalism is a creedless faith – one that does not “...claim that one doctrine is the correct one above all else.” He then speaks of Jesus’ commandment:

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbour as yourself.” (Matthew 22: 37-39 NIV)

...concluding that if he can (and, I infer, we can) “...hold to the standard of loving the utmost highest good with my whole heart, mind, and soul then the rest will be commentary.” In other words, our crises of faith, founded on questions about religious doctrine will seem less significant if we can all come together to live our lives by Jesus’ commandment. I couldn’t agree more. And yet I have been experiencing a “crisis of faith” as a Unitarian Universalist because I am not sure what our faith is and, therefore, I am uncertain with what it is I have identified myself.

According to my Shorter Oxford English Dictionary, faith is:

1. Confidence, reliance, belief esp. without evidence or proof. Belief based on testimony or authority.

2. What is or should be believed; a system of firmly-held beliefs or principles; a religion.

I infer from these definitions that a religion is and must be founded on faith in something. This does not necessarily mean faith in one, doctrinal, definition of who or what is God. But, to me at least, it does mean belief in and action upon a commonly-held system of principals or values; for if the word religion comes from the Latin word religare, “to bind fast”, then for Unitarian Universalism to be a religion there must be something that binds us fast to our spiritual community.

So what is that something? As I was standing in the rain with the other peace activists yesterday, one of them asked me what Unitarian Universalism is. My “elevator speech” went something like this:

Unitarianism has its origins in a doctrinal dispute – whether the Christian God is a Trinity, and, therefore, Jesus is God or whether God is a Unity and, therefore, that Jesus is divine and of God but not God. Universalism has its origins in a doctrinal question in which the first Universalists disputed the notion of predestined and exclusive salvation, arguing that salvation is open to all people. Both traditions, therefore, arise from openness to new non-doctrinal ideas as well as a belief that these doctrinal differences need not be the cause for schisms among Christian peoples.

This openness and inclusiveness is the key element that identifies Unitarian Universalism today. While we do not embrace or exclude any personal religious creed, we do recognize that there are people who are embarked on their own journeys, searching for truth and meaning. UU’s come together as a religion to celebrate and support these journeys.

Maybe I have this all wrong but, if this is a good description of modern UU'ism, if this is why we “come to church”, then where is the faith – the collective belief in something? Of course, many UU’s would say that the “something” is our seven principals. This brings me to the crux of the issue for me and the reason I am undergoing this crisis of faith. For I question if we truly embrace these principals as a church even as many UU’s do individually.

As Rev. Hammond points out, Jesus’ commandment to “...love your neighbor as yourself” can be found in many faith traditions, including our own. We state that we believe in “...the inherent worth and dignity of every person”, that we advocate “...justice, equity and compassion in human relations”, that we promote “...the goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all”, and that we show “...respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.” But do we really as a church? If so, to cite two important examples,

Why are only 61% of U.S. and Canadian Unitarian Universalist Congregations “Welcoming Congregations”? Shouldn’t all of them be?

Why can’t we as UU’s say “No” to war? Instead of becoming bogged down in discussions about “just war”, “respecting our troops”, and whether the world is too complex for simplistic pacifist notions; why can’t we accept as an article of faith that peace is possible without recourse to armed force.

These two questions are not ones of religious theory or doctrine. They are examples of practical questions asked by seekers like me who want to bind themselves closer to a community of like-minded people who share and seek to live by common values. I would really like to know the answers for, while the answers may lead me to seek another place, failure to answer them most assuredly will.

I am not speaking for all UU’s, only for myself. My crisis of faith is founded on my inability to find our (not my) answers to these questions. Many of our ministers are meeting in a convocation in Ottawa, Canada this weekend. Are they pondering these and other important faith questions of our day? I hope so because I want to stand among members of the UU church who share the kind of clarity that those people at the local peace vigil did. Only then will I feel at home in my church. Only then will I proudly call myself a Unitarian Universalist.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Men for Others

Recently I attended a gathering of a group within my church during which we all shared some of the life experiences that inspired us to come together and advance the work of this group. As I heard from each person, I became increasingly uncomfortable with all of the “Catholic Church dissing” that was being spoken. Don’t get me wrong, I understand it. Among many UU’s, particularly in Rhode Island where the Catholic leadership actively lobbies our state legislature to embrace political positions that are anathema to most UU’s, the Catholic Church is not well-loved. Still, I found myself becoming increasingly defensive. I was raised a Roman Catholic by loving parents who were convinced that Catholicism was a good faith and religion in which to raise children. Part of my education was in Catholic schools, most importantly during my adolescent years when I was educated in a Jesuit high school. It was that education and what it meant to me that I was most mindful of when I became uncomfortable with the comments of my fellow UU’s at the gathering of which I spoke.

On July 31st, 1973, Fr. Pedro Arrupe, S.J., the Father General of the Society of Jesus, reframed the educational mission of his order in terms of the Catholic Church’s mission to advance the cause of justice among men:

Today our prime educational objective must be to form men-for-others; men who will live not for themselves but for God and his Christ —for the God-man who lived and died for all the world; men who cannot even conceive of love of God which does not include love for the least of their neighbors; men completely convinced that love of God which does not issue in justice for men is a farce.[i]



To Father Arrupe and many Catholic clerics of the time, this educational mission arose from the imperative of the Christian Gospels to address what they perceived to be a new ascendency of injustice worldwide. A 1971 synod of Roman Catholic bishops declared in their statement “Justice in the World”:

"Action on behalf of justice and participation in the transformation of the world fully appear to us as a constitutive dimension of the preaching of the Gospel, or, in other words, of the Church's mission for the redemption of the human race and its liberation from every oppressive situation."[ii]

Arrupe and his Jesuit brothers decided that their particular role in fulfilling the church’s greater mission “for redemption of the human race and its liberation from every oppressive situation,” was to prepare young men to be among those who would advance the cause of justice in human society. In so doing, these men would proclaim the Gospel by living lives more like that of Jesus. Arrupe concludes his letter:

Men-for-others: the paramount objective of Jesuit education —basic, advanced, and continuing— must now be to form such men. For if there is any substance in our reflections, then this is the prolongation into the modern world of our humanist tradition as derived from the Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius (the founder of the Society of Jesus). Only by being a man-for-others does one become fully human, not only in the merely natural sense, but in the sense of being the "spiritual" man of Saint Paul. He is the man filled with the Spirit; and we know whose Spirit that is: the Spirit of Christ, who gave his life for the salvation of the world; the God who, by becoming Man, became, beyond all others, a Man-for-others.[iii]

In my heart I have never been a Roman Catholic. I have never embraced the Catholic faith. But I did embrace the Jesuit philosophy as a youth. It is one reason I chose to become a naval officer – in order to serve my country in some way. I still do embrace that philosophy. It is one reason why I have decided to become a teacher as a second career – in order to serve my community in some way. I am not alone. My brothers, my father, my uncle and many of the men who graduated from my school, The University of Detroit Jesuit High School in Detroit, Michigan and from Jesuit schools worldwide, have all chosen careers and lives of service in some way – mindful of the Jesuit imperative to be “men for others.”

I think it is also true that my Jesuit education made it possible for me to become a Unitarian Universalist. While UU’s do not use the Christian term “Kingdom of God,” we do speak of an imperative to work for the Beloved Community – arguably the same imperative embraced by the Catholic bishops in 1971. As the Rev. Richard S. Gilbert has said:

“I contend that the Unitarian Universalist movement lives under a prophetic imperative, a religious mandate for the corporate address of the church to the systemic problems of society... The imperative to be stressed is that which emerges from the disciplines of freedom. Freedom is not merely the absence of restraint, but the will and capacity to act on one’s environment. It is a freedom that implies responsibility to enrich and expand freedom in the social order. Freedom, a central value of Unitarian Universalism, is a social concept, and, if it is to be preserved, an obligation is placed on the free person. I believe we are not free to desist from struggling for freedom for self and others. Freedom, by its very nature, places an imperative claim on the free person to expand that freedom to all.”[iv]

While Gilbert speaks of “freedom” and Arrupe of “becoming fully human”, I believe they are talking about the same thing. The whole, free human being is one who embraces the imperative of which they both speak and who then works to advance the cause of justice among all men – building the Kingdom of God / Beloved Community with each act done in the service of others.

As Unitarian Universalists engaged in our own self-examination of the direction of our ministry and the future of our church, I think we need to ask ourselves if we truly and collectively (rather than individually as many do) embrace this imperative. While I do not call myself a Roman Catholic, I proudly call myself a Jesuit-educated man because the Jesuits gave me something very important and powerful – a community of men who proudly and meaningfully embrace the Jesuit philosophy of being “men for others.”

To thrive and grow, Unitarian Universalists need to do the same thing. Our core values are clearly articulated. We only need to more fully and collectively embrace them. In so doing, more and more people, young and old, will proudly embrace the imperative and, in so doing, proudly call themselves Unitarian Universalists.
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[i] Arrupe, Fr. Pedro, S. J. “Men for Others,” Valencia, July 31, 1973. Accessed online November 7th, 2009 at: www.sjweb.info/documents/education/arr_men_en.doc.

[ii] Ibid.

[iii] Ibid.

[iv] Gilbert, Rev. Richard S. (2000). The prophetic imperative: Social gospel in theory and practice. Boston: Skinner House Books, pp. 4-8.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

For One of the Dead - Week of November 1st, 2009

Please remember Mayyadah Muhammed Abd‑al‑Hasan, an Iraqi woman who died in the Iraq War. I don't know her but I do know that her life was every bit as sacred as mine. Her death diminishes all of our lives.
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Source: Iraq Body Count - http://www.iraqbodycount.org/database/individuals/kn1445.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Repairing Bridges

In this blog, I have written of what I believe to be an imperative for Unitarian Universalists – an imperative to embrace pacifism as the true expression of our stated values of, “the inherent worth and dignity of every person;” and “respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.” By embracing this imperative, I believe we can become a real force in our society for peace, justice, and the realization of the Beloved Community. In my writings, I have tried to make the case for this imperative in terms of international relations, war, diplomacy, and peace on the world stage. What I am coming to understand is that there are many dimensions to embracing a conviction of peace and that to advance the cause of peace in the larger world; one must also embrace it in one’s own life and in one’s relations with others.
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Now I understood this personal dimension of peace in my head but I am not sure I understood it in my heart. I first began to really think about it during a Quaker Meeting I attended recently during which one of the Friends stood up and spoke of the necessity of finding inner peace in order to advance the cause of peace in the larger world. This was a dimension of the Quaker Peace Testimony to which I had not given much thought. I guess I had a misconception that the Quaker Peace Testimony was like being part of some big social action committee that worked for peace in the world. Of course, on reflection, this was a silly misconception. What I think the Peace Testimony really means is bearing witness to peace within ourselves, within our families, among our friends, in our communities, and in the wider world. Quoting from a Quaker Home Service pamphlet [i]:
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On the simplest level, “testimony” means “bearing witness” and Friends’ long heritage of witnessing to peace can be found in their refusal to bear arms in times of civil and international conflict, in acts of prophetic confrontation and of quiet, reconciling diplomacy. But these acts are merely outward and visible signs of inward conviction. This conviction springs from a living Spirit, mediated through the human experience of those trying to understand and follow its leadings. It grows afresh in every worshipping group, in every generation.
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At the heart of this conviction is Friends’ experience that there is something of God, the seed of the Spirit, in all people. Quakers believe that more can be accomplished by appealing to this capacity for love and goodness than can be hoped for by threatening punishment or retaliation if people act badly...
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...The peace testimony is not something Quakers take down from a shelf and dust off only in wartime or in times of personal or political crisis. Living out a witness to peace has to do with everyday choices about the work we do, the relationships we build, what part we take in politics, what we buy, how we raise our children. It is a matter of fostering relationships and structures, from personal to international, which are strong and healthy.
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This past week, I had two experiences which helped make these ideas more than just words for me. I reconnected with two friends to whom I had almost burnt all my bridges because of feelings of hurt and anger. In the first instance, I reconnected with someone who had been a dear friend 26 years ago when we were college students together. I had been hurt not long after graduation when we stopped writing to each other (the Navy had taken me to the West Coast, far from where this person was living). This small hurt had stayed with me all these years and I guess I had always wanted to reconnect with this person who had meant a lot to me. Just this past week we did reconnect, we did speak candidly to each other, we did recall our friendship with fond memories and good feelings, and, I hope, by talking about our lives since, reminded each other of why we had become friends in the first place. For me, the hurt disappeared and I was once again at peace with someone who had been very important to me.
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This experience led me to realize that I was burning a bridge to another person, one with whom I had forged a more recent friendship out of shared experiences working for something we both feel passionately about. With all things of this nature, the dreams born of one’s passions often are not fully realized. I have been unhappy and angry about that and I was taking those feelings out on my friend – blaming my friend for disappointments that were no one’s fault. Realizing this, I told my friend I was sorry – asking forgiveness for the hurt I had caused. In so doing, once again, my own anger and hurt disappeared and I felt at peace with someone with whom I had a valued relationship.
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If you have gotten this far, you are probably thinking, “Did it take you nearly 50 years of life to figure out the importance of individual peacemaking?” Perhaps it has, reminding me once again that I am not as smart as I thought I was. As one who wants to see humanity end war, however, I am coming to realize in my heart that to begin to do that we also need to end all the little wars we fight with each other. These two people taught me that lesson this week. I will be forever grateful to them for that lesson and for helping me find a little inner peace.
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[i] Leavitt, Mary Lou (1989). Quaker Peace Testimony. Quaker Home Service, London Yearly Meeting of the Society of Friends.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Core Values, UU Health, and Growth

There has been a lot of converstation in the bloggosphere about growth in UU'ism. For what it is worth, I agree with Boston Unitarian's comment:
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The reasons why Unitarian Universalism does not grow are legion and fairly well known. To me the most significant is one that is also inherent-our lack of a unified message. Since this really cannot (and should not) be "fixed" it seems fairly clear that significant growth will never happen.
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What I do not agree with is that this should not be fixed. I believe that Unitarian Universalism needs to embrace a set of core values founded in our history, heritage, theology, and religion - not to grow for growth's sake but to remake ourselves into a healthy, relevant church for the twenty-first century. I am reposting an address I gave at Westminster Unitarian Church over Memorial Day Weekend that sets forth my case for UU's seriously embracing a set of core values. Or you might read (or re-read) Rev. Richard S. Gilbert's The Prophetic Imperative: Social Gospel in Theory and Practice. He says what I have been trying to say since I stated this blog so much better than I.
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Address Delivered to the Congregation of Westminster Unitarian Church, East Greenwich, Rhode Island
May 24th, 2009
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Good morning. Thank you for asking me to speak to you today. I am sure you are wondering what I am going to talk about given that I opened this service with a statement from the United States Navy’s Core Values Charter[i] and then we recited together the Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s vision of the Beloved Community.[ii] Please bear with me as I try to link the two together.
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In 2003, the U. S. Army War College’s Strategic Studies Institute wanted to find out what motivated American service people to put their lives on the line in combat. Researchers asked U.S. troops who had just fought in the Iraq invasion what were their motivations for continuing to fight in a battle. Not surprisingly, the foremost answer was that they fought for each other. What was surprising to some was that American troops also cited the importance of the cause for which they were fighting – and that “cause” was not finding weapons of mass destruction, not overthrowing Saddam Hussein, but bringing liberation and democracy to the people of Iraq. Fighting for ideals and values which Americans believe are their own was of great importance to these troops. Historians have found similar motivations in other wars. Civil War historian James McPherson found that Confederate troops fought “for liberty and independence from what they regarded as a tyrannical government” while Union troops fought “to preserve the nation created by the founders from dismemberment and destruction.” Freedom from tyranny and liberation of the oppressed are goals that American service people have always fought and died for.[iii]
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These findings don’t surprise me. American military service culture exposes young Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Marines, and Coast Guardsmen to service core values from the day they take their oaths. In my service, the Navy, Sailors embrace values of Honor, Courage, and Commitment and a creed that embodies those values and which states:
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I am a United States Sailor.
I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States of America and I will obey the orders of those appointed over me.
I represent the fighting spirit of the Navy and all who have gone before me to defend freedom and democracy around the world.
I proudly serve my country’s Navy combat team with Honor, Courage and Commitment.
I am committed to excellence and the fair treatment of all.[iv]
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Our Constitution, freedom and democracy, and fair treatment of all – these are the values we serve and fight for. These are values that were so important to some that they gave their lives to uphold them.
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Tomorrow is Memorial Day, a day on which we honor and remember our service men and women who fought and died for these values. It is appropriate that we do so but I think it is also appropriate that we ask ourselves, “What can I do to really honor this sacrifice?”
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It is my belief that we can best honor them by the practice of our faith as Unitarian Universalists.
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I want to share with you why I became a Unitarian Universalist. As a career naval officer dedicated to the practice of my service’s core values of Honor, Courage, and Commitment, I became disillusioned and disgusted with what my country has become after 9/11. I believe that our government, with our tacit consent, has practiced unjust war, denial of human rights, abrogation of civil liberties, and torture – all in the name of a war whose enemy we don’t even formally name. In so doing, I believe our government, again with our silent acceptance, has dishonored all of those who wear the uniform, serve, fight, and sometimes die for the values I spoke of. These are harsh and, perhaps, surprising words coming from a retired career officer but I feel I must say them.
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Because I feel this way and because, while on active duty, I could not speak out and still be true to my oath, I became a Unitarian Universalist as my own personal act of witness against what I believe is so fundamentally wrong in our society. In a country in which so many believe that (in theologian and journalist Chris Hedges’ words) “war is a force that gives us meaning”, Unitarian Universalists have always looked for meaning elsewhere. The Rev. James Luther Adams in 1946, calling our religion “A Faith for Free Men,” wrote, “...that the commanding, sustaining, transforming reality (of our religion) finds its rightful focus in meaningful human history, in free, cooperative effort for the common good. In other words, this reality fulfills man’s life only when men stand in right relation to each other. Man, the historical being, comes most fully to terms with this reality in the exercise of freedom that works for justice in the human community. Only what creates freedom in a community of justice is dependable...Only the society that gives every man the opportunity to share in the process whereby human potentiality is realizable, only the society that creates social forms of freedom in a community of justice (where every man is given his due), only the freedom that respects the divine image and dignity in every man are dependable.” Rev. Adams concludes, “As Lincoln put it, ‘Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves, and, under a just God, cannot long retain it.’”[v]
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Adams is describing what the Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. called the Beloved Community, a completely integrated society, a community of love and justice wherein brotherhood will be an actuality in all of social life.[vi] I became a Unitarian Universalist because I believe that our core value is the Beloved Community and our mission in the world is to build it and sustain it. The freedom that arises from life in such a community is, I believe, the freedom those who serve in the armed forces fight for. You and I can honor all those who fought and died for this freedom by striving ceaselessly for realization of the Beloved Community.
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The Beloved Community may seem a lofty, unrealistic, unattainable goal. I believe, as many in our church do, that it IS attainable. This belief is fully consistent with our sixth principle to affirm and promote the goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all.
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But how well have I done, have we done affirming and promoting this Beloved Community? I asked myself this question recently when experiencing a crisis of faith – wondering whether we as a church strive as we must to build this community. As Rev. Amy Freedman, my own minister, has said, “As human beings we can either obstruct the establishment of a just and loving community or participate in creating one. Our faith in the goodness of life calls us, you and me, to speak and work, live and love in order to bring more understanding and healing into this world.”[vii] Do we choose to embrace this mission? Do we choose to embrace our core value of the Beloved Community and work steadfastly for its realization?
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In one of my final assignments for the Navy, I rediscovered the power of core values – how putting them into practice can make a difference in the world and how practicing them can sustain one in morally challenging times. I was assigned as the Commander of the Navy Element of Joint Task Force Guantanamo, the enemy combatant detention facility. My principal job was to organize, train, and equip Navy Sailors to be detainee guards. It was 2005 and Abu Ghraib was fresh in everyone’s memory. I really wondered how I would train Sailors in such a way as to prevent something like Abu Ghraib happening at Guantanamo. I realized that fundamentally what I needed to do was preach and practice the Navy’s core values of Honor, Courage, and Commitment every day. Just as in previous commands, if I did that, my Sailors would follow my example.
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Let me offer one story to illustrate this. Our Sailors went through rigorous training, conducted by Army soldiers, to be guards at GTMO. Much of this training involved simulated exercises with Army role-players acting as detainees and acting in a way that created the worst possible scenario for the guard-trainees. After each exercise, the Sailors (who were normally soaking wet (with simulated urine), covered with baby food (simulated human feces), and, in some cases, a little bit pissed off, would gather for a post-exercise critique with the Army instructors. I found this to be an excellent process. It forced the Sailors to discuss what they had done right and what they had done wrong in a non-threatening environment. Often the Sailors, to their credit, would talk candidly about their mistakes and find ways among themselves to correct them and do better.
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I always attended these post-exercise critiques but seldom interjected, preferring to let the Sailors identify their own problems and find their own solutions. I would speak up to clarify an issue or to ensure that the Sailors found solutions that were consistent with how the Navy wanted them to perform in Guantanamo. For instance, at one post-exercise critique, the Sailors were having a heated discussion with their instructors over the forced extraction from a cell of a role player who had a simulated weapon. Sailors are trained to use the minimum amount of force necessary to remove a detainee from a cell who was fighting not to be removed. Normally a forced cell extraction involved the Sailors dressing in riot gear (pads, helmets, plastic shield) and entering as a group linked like a chain. They force the detainee up against a wall, wrestle him to the floor, and secure his hands and feet. They then pick him up and remove him. Sailors are taught to apply pressure to points on the detainee’s body to cause him to stop resisting in accordance with accepted unarmed self-defense tactics. During this particular exercise, one Sailor was trying to apply pressure with his knee to a point on the role player’s body (a technique the Sailor had been taught). Unfortunately, the Sailor was doing it incorrectly and it appeared on the film record (forced cell extractions were always filmed) as if the Sailor was gratuitously “kneeing” the role player.
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The Army instructor pointed this out but the Sailors (who still had a little adrenalin in their systems) indignantly held that they were only doing what they had been taught. The instructor then pointed out that it didn’t matter what they were trying to do. The important thing was that it appeared on the film to be gratuitous hitting; something the media would most certainly make use of in a real life situation to paint a picture of abuse at Guantanamo. It was important, therefore, to be sensitive to media and public perceptions.
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At this point, I spoke up. As I started to speak, one of the Sailors told everyone, “Be quiet, the Captain has something to say.” It dawned on me at that moment that these young men and women were looking for clear guidance and I needed to be very clear in what I told them. I said that media perception and public perception were not the issue. What was important was that the Sailors were misapplying the technique they had been taught with the result that they were, in fact, unnecessarily hitting the role player and hurting him. It is simply wrong to apply any more force than is necessary to restrain a detainee in a real-life situation since to do so might cause him unnecessary harm. I then told them not to worry about media or public perceptions. Just strive to do the right thing always, simply because it is the right thing to do. They accepted this – certainly that is how they performed in Guantanamo.
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Did they really – you might ask? I know they did because, after we arrived in Guantanamo, I often conducted unannounced walk-thru’s of the camps at night – a time when not too many senior officers were around. One night, I happened to notice a group of Sailors in a formation getting ready to go into the camps to assume guard duty. They were reciting aloud that Sailor’s Creed I read to you earlier – reminding themselves of what was expected of them. Later I observed these same Sailors acting with the skill they learned in training and with the professionalism and compassion expected of United States Sailors.
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I’m not telling this story to illustrate what a great leader I am or how well my Sailors took orders. What I said was not all that profound. In fact, it was only what the Navy expected me or any other Captain to say to the Sailors in this situation. Further, the Navy expected me to ensure that the Sailors performed in this fashion just as I expected the Sailors to do so. I am, to this day, extremely proud of them but I was never surprised that they performed as they did. We all embraced the Navy’s core values of Honor, Courage, and Commitment and put them into practice. In the process, I think we made Guantanamo a slightly better place.
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Identifying with and practicing core values empower one to achieve that which may seem otherwise unobtainable. As Unitarian Universalists, we identify with our core value of the Beloved Community but how do we embrace it in such a way as to empower ourselves to work meaningfully and ceaselessly for its realization?
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I mentioned I recently experienced a crisis of faith. Frankly, I see a lot of complacency in our society now. “Don’t blame me, I didn’t vote for Bush!” is something I have heard more than once. Others say, “Barack Obama is in the White House so now things will be better – we can relax.” But even now, people are saying things like, “We need to go slow on closing Guantanamo, evaluating all the complexities,” or, “While we condemn torture, nothing is served by prosecuting those who were just following orders. We need to look forward not backward,” and, of course, the conservatives and the nativists are still on the march marginalizing the poor, condemning Mexicans for spreading swine flu, and frightening people with the threat of transferring “terrorists” to super-max prisons near their home towns. Seems like the Beloved Community is still a long way off and no one is doing much to achieve it.
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That’s unfair; lots of people are working toward it – including my minister, many social justice activists in my church and many in the larger UU communion. But, in spite of all that I asked myself, what is my church as a whole doing about it? I felt we weren’t doing enough and also felt I was alone feeling this way – maybe I belonged elsewhere. Then I happened to find the writings of the Rev. Richard S. Gilbert, a UU minister, whose book The Prophetic Imperative: Social Gospel in Theory and Practice kept me in the church by assuring me that I was not alone and that my rather ambiguously-framed concerns and critiques have been given more eloquent form and are a part of the identity of our church.
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Gilbert writes, “I contend that the Unitarian Universalist movement lives under a prophetic imperative, a religious mandate for the corporate address of the church to the systemic problems of society. I cannot prove that; I do not assert it as a divine imperative; I only feel it deep in my bones. Otherwise, we will be trapped in individualistic self-interest promoted by the dominant reactionary rhetoric and by neoconservative ideology, both political and religious.”
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He goes on to say, “My intent is to apply the term prophetic primarily to the religious community. The prophetic church is a religious community that seeks to intervene in human history for the sake of social justice. This intervention is made in the context of religious conviction, but without the supernatural confidence of the Hebrew prophets. The authority of the prophetic liberal church will instead be derived in somewhat more humanistic terms that articulate a transcendent standard for justice.
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“The imperative to be stressed is that which emerges from the disciplines of freedom. Freedom is not merely the absence of restraint, but the will and capacity to act on one’s environment. It is a freedom that implies responsibility to enrich and expand freedom in the social order. Freedom, a central value of Unitarian Universalism, is a social concept, and, if it is to be preserved, an obligation is placed on the free person. I believe we are not free to desist from struggling for freedom for self and others. Freedom, by its very nature, places an imperative claim on the free person to expand that freedom to all.”[viii]
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Echoing Adams and King, Gilbert states that by enriching and expanding freedom in the social order we help build the Beloved Community, calling it, “...a humanistically oriented substitute for the Kingdom of God...a poetic metaphor to describe, not theological salvation in the next world, but social salvation in this one.”
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Gilbert explores the roots of the prophetic imperative in Unitarian and Universalist history and then sketches out a model for how a congregation like yours and mine can embrace it. His model moves away from the traditional stove pipe approach to church programs, with constituencies for ministry, religious education, fund raising, social justice, property management, etc. and toward a more integrated approach in which the spiritual and social action do more than coexist. They are integrated into a whole to the extent that one cannot survive without the other because each is an expression of the other. Such an integrated congregation can be a powerful force in the community for meaningful social action and systemic change.
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Gilbert’s is a model that will empower each of our congregations to embrace our core value of the Beloved Community and work more effectively for its realization. It is our religion given expression in action and it is, I believe, a blueprint for the future of our church. That idea is not original with me. For example, one of the candidates for President of the Unitarian Universalist Association, Rev. Peter Morales, has said, “True religion teaches us that we are all in this together and that everyone matters. And if we really take that to heart then we will work to end suffering and hatred and violence and oppression. If we are to create a little corner of paradise, there is no room for hatred and injustice.”[ix]
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Unitarian and Universalist clerics have preached about freedom since the days of Channing, Parker, and Ballou. In each case, they speak not of privileges but of the obligation to work for social justice – the foundation of freedom in the Beloved Community. Gilbert speaks of that obligation and offers us a model to fulfill it. It is a model that inspires me to work for the Beloved Community – what I believe to be the core value of the Unitarian Universalist church.
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The freedom of which Channing, Parker, Ballou, Adams, King, Gilbert and others speak is the freedom the men and women we honor this weekend fought and died for. If we truly honor their sacrifice, we should fight for that freedom too.
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[i] “As in our past, we are dedicated to the Core Values of Honor, Courage, and Commitment to build the foundation of trust upon which our strength is based and victory is achieved. These principles upon which the U. S. Navy was founded continue to guide us today...We will be faithful to our Core Values of Honor, Courage, and Commitment as our abiding duty and privilege.” Found at: http://www.tpub.com/content/advancement/12024/img/12024_43_1.jpg.
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[ii] “The end is reconciliation; the end is redemption; the end is the creation of the Beloved Community. It is this type of spirit and this type of love that can transform opposers into friends. It is this type of understanding goodwill that will transform the deep gloom of the old age into the exuberant gladness of the new age. It is this love which will bring about miracles in the hearts of men.” From: King, Rev. Martin Luther, Jr. (1957). “The Role of the Church in Facing the Nation's Chief Moral Dilemma.” Downloaded May 20th, 2009 from: http://www.wearethebelovedcommunity.org/bcquotes.html.
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[iii] Wong, Leonard, et al (2003). Why they fight: Combat motivation in the Iraq war. Strategic Studies Institute, United States Army War College, Carlisle, Pennsylvania.
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[iv] The Sailor’s Creed and the history of its development can be found on the Naval History and Heritage Command website at: http://www.history.navy.mil/library/online/creed.htm.
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[v] Adams, Rev. James Luther (1946). “A Faith for Free Men.” Cited it David B. Parke, The epic of Unitarianism: Original writings from the history of liberal religion. Boston: Skinner House Books, 1985, pp. 151 – 152.
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[vi] See Smith, Kenneth L. and Zepp, Ira G., Jr. (1974). Search for the beloved community: The thinking of Martin Luther King. Jr. Valley Forge, PA: Judson Press.
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[vii] Freedman, Rev. Amy Bowden (2007). “Five Smooth Stones of Liberal Religion.” Sermon delivered to the Congregation of Channing Memorial Church, Newport, RI, found at: http://www.channingchurch.org/Archives/Talks/2007/5SmoothStones_9.30.07.pdf.
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[viii] Gilbert, Rev. Richard S. (2000). The prophetic imperative: Social gospel in theory and practice, 2nd edition. Boston: Skinner House Books, pp. 4-8.
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[ix] Morales, Rev. Peter (2008). “Paradise: Lost or stolen?” Sermon delivered to the Congregation of Jefferson Unitarian Church, Golden, CO, found at: http://www.jeffersonunitarian.org/sermons/morales/pm_paradise.html.

Monday, October 19, 2009

For One of the Dead - Week of October 18th, 2009

Please remember Anthony G. Green, a 28 year old man who died in Afghanistan. I don't know him but I do know that his life was every bit as sacred as mine. His death diminishes all of our lives.[i]

[i] Source: U. S. and Coalition Casualties - http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2004/oef.casualties/2009.10.html.